Resilience and coping
Resilience is the ability to cope with, adapt to, or bounce back after experiencing adverse events. Some definitions take this further and speak of ‘bouncing forward’: where experiencing disruptive, stressful or challenging life events provides individuals or communities with additional protective and coping skills, thus providing a route to growth and development.
Such a positive outcome is likely to depend on :
- How much support we have at the time
- Our previous experience of distressing events
- Our perceived capacity to cope with the situation
- The nature and severity of the situation itself
A person’s psychosocial resilience and willingness to accept social support, may assist in how they cope.
The following provides a key to good psychosocial resilience:
- Being able to accept and use psychosocial support
- Being able to deal with circumstances realistically
- Having strong self-belief and value
Psychosocial resilience is NOT the same as:
- Absence of mental disorders
- Absence of distress
- Absence of risk
Social support is not only about providing an individual with practical assistance, but also consists of interactions and relationships that are felt to be caring, comforting and readily available in times of need.
Social support might be provided by anyone within a person’s social network: friends, relatives, individuals in the community as well as staff or volunteers working in the public sector.
There are positive things people can do to help themselves to recover. They may try to reduce stress by problem solving, or they can adapt to the stress by accepting it. This type of positive coping should be encouraged.
People sometimes behave in ways that are less helpful such as avoiding or denying their problems. Denial may help people to cope in the short-term, but it is not a helpful long-term way of coping.
Worrying excessively about events can increase suffering in the longer-term. People who show persistent denial or worrying should be signposted to assessment by healthcare agencies. However, no-one should be forced to talk or access help if they are not ready to.
© Public Health England