Ten reasons not to send them straight out
We have talked about slowing down sanctions. Here are ten reasons why it is better to step carefully through planned sanctions rather than breaking into a fury and demanding the student gets out of your sight…
- If you stray from the agreed hierarchy of sanctions you are showing the children that you are inconsistent; you have broken your agreement with the class.
- Going for the highest sanction straight away leaves no further room for manoeuvre.
- The child may react defensively – answering back, confronting, protesting publicly.
- Colleagues find it difficult to gauge when you need support and when you are simply sending children out through frustration.
- You allow the class to see your emotional reactions over your rational choices.
- You are encouraging parents and senior staff to question your management of behaviour.
- By sending children out you only relieve your frustration temporarily.
- Other children will see your inconsistency and may protest or react against it.
- For children who are often sent out without moving through the sanction steps, being excluded becomes an expected outcome.
- Your behaviour management agreement with the class is trampled on. Trust is broken.
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