Skip to 0 minutes and 4 secondsRICHARD CHAMBERS: Practising mindfulness helps us get in touch with deeper parts of ourselves. When we're caught up in the busyness of day-to-day life and rushing through what we're doing or caught up in reactivity, it's very hard to be in touch with our values and to know what's important. But when we start to slow down a little bit and tune in, we've got a much better chance of being able to do that. Values provide a direction for us to head in. And they're a little bit different to goals. So you can think about values like the direction and goals like steps along the way. So what I mean by that is, we might value connectedness or relationships.
Skip to 0 minutes and 39 secondsAnd so certain goals might be to meet a partner and get married or to care for the person who lives next door. Or perhaps at work, we might value success-- so getting a promotion or doing well in some project might be a goal along the way. Or if we value learning, getting a university degree, finishing school-- they could be goals that are in the service of those values. So mindfulness helps us to just stop and think about what our values are. We might just tune in and start to wonder, what is it that I value in life? What inspires me? What do I want my life to be about?
Skip to 1 minute and 18 secondsAnd even sitting down for a time and really reflecting on that and writing that down, can be a very useful thing to do. We can also get a felt sense of our values too. And what I mean by that is, if we have made that list of values, and then we stop and really think about what it means in our life to be more adventurous or more caring or more connected, some of those values are going to feel inspiring or motivating or enlivening for us. And if we're paying attention to our body, we can also start to notice that when we are in line with our values, that can feel very enlivening and exciting.
Skip to 1 minute and 51 secondsWe get that felt sense that, yeah. This is what I want my life to be about. And so while values are very personal and individual, and there's no right or wrong set of values, it's very much about tuning in and knowing what's right for us. There are some very common values that seem to show up time and time again in the wisdom traditions. And they come mostly from sensing our interconnectedness with others. When we really tune to ourselves, we notice that the qualities that we have, the experiences that we have, this crazy mind of ours, the distraction, the stress-- it's all just part of being human. And it's actually what makes us just part of the human race.
Skip to 2 minutes and 27 secondsAnd so we naturally start to become more loving and compassionate and altruistic as well-- so these very core common values that show up.
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