Skip to 0 minutes and 7 secondsIt's really, really important for parents and carers to be able to look after their own needs and to be able to put themselves first from time to time, especially when they're caring for others or looking after and supporting children who are feeling low or have other difficulties. Well, research actually shows us that parents find it incredibly difficult to put their own needs first. It's almost as if they put their life on hold while their child is not OK. But actually, what we want parents to realise is that the more OK they are, the more they will be able to support their children.
Skip to 0 minutes and 47 secondsAnd a lot of parents say that they feel really guilty about that, and they feel like they can't possibly have fun or go and do a really nice activity or go and take time out when they know that their child is not feeling OK. And what we're trying to say is actually, we need to flip that the other way around and think about this as a really crucial first step in being able to support others.
A parent and expert's view
Watch Dr Monika Parkinson explain why self-care is important when supporting a young person with low mood and depression.
As you discussed in the previous Step, self-care can be many things including:
In this optional second video, a parent (played by an actor but based on real case examples) shares her view.
This is an additional video, hosted on YouTube.
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